That’s what’s going on in our house at the moment. Last night was the first night. It was extremely rough on me I think more than the munchkin although I wasn’t the one crying on and off for forty minutes.
It’s not entirely a choice at this point. Between him discarding the pacifiers outside in the woods and them having to be thrown out because they were just too cruddy he has no more left. The last one disappeared yesterday, and given yesterday we were staying close to home and we’ve been trying for the past month or more to explain to him that because he’s getting to be such a big boy and learning to potty and everything else that he doesn’t need the pacifier I figured this was a good a time as any to stop replacing them.
For the most part during the day I was proved right. Usually the appearance of the “pars” as he calls it only happens when he’s getting tired, ready for a nap or bed but doesn’t really want to go. He’ll be sitting there playing snuggling puppy and blankie and with the pacifier in his mouth and even though you ask him if he’s wanting to get to bed he will, of course, say no.
Well, last night he started this while the guys were over playing D&D and so Roomie volunteered to put him to bed because it wasn’t her turn in the game. She brought him to his room, read him a little bit of Spot and I heard him asking for “pars”. “I’ll go look for one,” Roomie told him, “You be a good boy and wait a little bit, ok?”
So, she came out and asked if she was right in thinking there were no pacifiers left, and I said I hadn’t seen one all day, so we sat with bated breath and not a peep was heard, for about two and a half hours, then all of a sudden, “MOMMY! MUMMY! MUMMY! MUMMIN!”
I got up and went in there, “Pars, Mummin?”
“No, sweetie, there are no more.”
So, then the waterworks started. I got him calmed down a bit and tried to sneak out of the room. Then the tantrums started, and he was getting really freaked out. Roomie tried to go in and calm him down, she got him back to bed, but then he freaked out again. I went in and calmed him down, rubbed his back, sang to him, hubbie came in to check and see how both of us were doing because he realized that my baby being apparently inconsolable had to be getting to me, and it was, I was about ready to drive 90 mph down to the nearest store and demand pacifiers.
In the end we put the radio on for him and hubbie sat with him for a little while. Apparently quite the contest of wills stare down went on, but in the end hubbie emerged saying that he’d left the main light on as well as the night light but that he felt they had “come to an understanding,” and not a peep was heard from the munchkin until almost 8 a.m.
I’m kinda fearful how tonight’s going to be…